Danielle and Ryan’s wedding at Synclaire Events Venue proved that a rainy wedding day can actually work ridiculously well in your favor. They planned an entirely indoor celebration in Fargo filled with details inspired by their life in Chicago, a ceremony surrounded by the people they love, and a reception that leaned into a moodier, more intimate atmosphere as the evening went on. We didn’t have to fight the forecast or pretend it wasn’t raining. We just let the day be what it was.

Danielle originally found me on Instagram, and when she and Ryan reached out, they were very clear about what they wanted from their photography: “We are looking for a photographer who can capture the big and small moments of our day with a documentary approach. We are both uncomfy in front of the camera so we’ll need help!”

Which, honestly, is a very normal combination. You want photos that feel candid and effortless, but you also don’t necessarily know what the heck to do with your hands when a camera appears. My job is to find the balance between the two: stepping in when you need direction and backing off when the moment is already doing everything it needs to do.

A Rainy Wedding Day at Synclaire Events Venue

Danielle is originally from North Dakota, so even though she and Ryan now live in Chicago, Fargo made sense as the place to bring everyone together. Synclaire Events Venue offered an entire wedding indoors without the day feeling confined, which became especially convenient when the weather decided to commit fully to the rain. And honestly? The weather fit.

The historic woodwork and staircase gave us a darker, more architectural backdrop for some of the earlier photographs. The main event spaces were bright, minimal, and filled with natural light. It also gave us room to play with the photography itself. Some moments called for crisp, classic images. Others felt better in black and white. And a few practically begged for movement and blur. I never want a wedding gallery to feel like the same photograph repeated 700 times with slightly different people standing in it. The way a moment is photographed should support the way that moment actually felt.

One of my favorite parts of the day was their first look. Just the two of them in this beautiful room. They got to have that little pocket of time together before everything else started. And that mattered even more because once the ceremony began, the day moved quickly. They exchanged vows, rings, had their first kiss, and walked back down the aisle absolutely beaming. The nerves from earlier in the day had pretty much left the building by then.

Bringing Their Favorite Parts of Chicago to Fargo

Danielle and Ryan’s actual life made its way into the design, and it was so fun to photograph. They live in Chicago together with their dog and three cats, and rather than choosing details simply because they looked good on Pinterest, they pulled inspiration from places they genuinely love back home. Food and décor throughout the reception referenced some of their favorite Chicago spots, making the wedding feel connected to the life they’ve built together even though they were celebrating hundreds of miles away.

The Chicago-themed postcards at the tables were one of my favorite details. Each included a handwritten note from Danielle and Ryan, taking something that could have been purely decorative and making it personal. Guests weren’t just assigned a seat; another little piece of the couple was waiting for them when they got there.

And then there was the seating chart. I was obsessed. Some wedding details you photograph because they need to be documented, and some wedding details where I am internally like, oh hell yes, give me five minutes with this thing. Their seating chart was the latter. It felt intentional and interesting without becoming one of those wedding details that exists solely for the sake of being elaborate.

Beautiful weddings are obviously fun to photograph, but personality will win every single time. Danielle and Ryan’s details told you something about them. Chicago is where they currently call home. North Dakota is part of Danielle’s story. Their wedding brought those two pieces together instead of trying to manufacture an aesthetic that had nothing to do with their real lives.

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The line from Danielle and Ryan’s original inquiry that stuck with me was their desire to document both big and small moments. The big moments are easy to identify. But so much of a wedding happens in between them. Those photographs require a different kind of attention. I’m still giving direction when it’s useful, especially for a couple who has already told me being photographed isn’t exactly their favorite recreational activity. But I’m also paying attention to what is happening around me instead of constantly trying to create something.

There’s a point where too much direction starts pulling you out of your own wedding. I would much rather help you feel comfortable enough to forget about me for a while. By the reception, you should be doing exactly that.

After they received their gallery, Danielle sent me a message that basically summed up everything I wanted these photographs to accomplish:

“Thank you one million times for the most perfect gallery!!!! You are such an artist, and you truly captured how the day FELT. Such a gift. We can’t thank you enough!”

How the day felt. That’s it.

Of course I want the portraits to be beautiful. But twenty years from now, I also want you to remember your grandma squeezing you during a hug. The way your partner looked at you before the ceremony. How hard you laughed coming back down the aisle.

Danielle and Ryan wanted a wedding gallery that captured the big things without overlooking all the tiny ones happening around them. And that’s exactly what their day deserved.

Vendors

Coordinator | Graceful Gatherings
Venue | Synclaire Events Venue
Videographer | SJ Home Video
DJ | GenerationNOW
Florals | Floret & Foliage
Hair | Salon Duo
MUA | Artistry by Kimberly
Decor | The White House Co
Dress | Sarah Seven
Rings | Ethan Lord
Invitations | Ainsley & Elaine